In the late 1970’s I lived in a fifth floor walk-up railroad flat in a Hell’s Kitchen tenement at a time when the Irish mob still controlled much of that section of Manhattan and it was considered “undesirable” by the gay men who inhabited the West Village and the Upper East Side.
With the closing of the Hudson River piers the dock workers and their families who had lived for the better part of a hundred and fifty years crowded into the closely packed tenements left and were replaced by Puerto Ricans who had begun arriving in New York in the 1950’s, finding life in the slums of the Westside a step up from the dire poverty they had left behind them.
I’d been living in a tiny studio on the east side of Ninth Ave. on 45th St., which was in the Theatre District, and, for some reason, considered a more desirable area in which to live, despite the fact that it was just as dangerous there as it was on the blocks off the river.
One dreary, January afternoon, as I was making my way down Eighth Ave. from a dance class, I ran into a guy I waited tables with and who lived in a tenement on the next block from mine. He excitedly told me that an old Greek woman in his building had committed suicide by climbing out her kitchen window onto the fire escape and jumping to the street below. He knew I’d been looking for a bigger place so told me that if I wanted the apartment I’d better get right over there and talk to the superintendent.
Without even stopping home to drop off my dance bag, I ran over to his building on the other side of Ninth and found the super. We talked for a few minutes and after some money changed hands he gave me the keys. I went right upstairs and was relieved to find that it had been cleaned out so all I had to do was paint and move my things over from my old place.
My first evening in my new apartment, while unpacking boxes, I heard for the first time what would become an almost daily occurrence: the muffled sound of a woman crying and wailing.
I stopped what I was doing, went to my door and undid the deadbolt and security chain before opening it just enough to stick my head out onto the landing. The weeping was coming from the apartment across the hall and every few moments the wails were punctuated by a deep sob, as if the woman from whom those pitiful sounds emanated had been punched in the gut.
I knew I was listening to something that should be private, but stood there transfixed, knowing I ought to go back into my apartment, but unable to close my door as I found myself unsettled by the sounds of the suffering I was overhearing.
I was pulled down into the world of memory to when I was a child and would hear my mother crying in the basement of our farmhouse. I’d tiptoe through my parents’ bedroom and crack open the door that opened unto the stairs that led down into the dank basement and listen to her quiet sobbing.
My mother, squatting behind the wringer wash machine, escaping for a moment the tedious farm life in which she felt trapped, the solitude of that space giving her a chance to mourn the loss of her city life in Germany that had been destroyed in the war—family killed in the bombings, her first husband presumed dead in Russia, the daughter abandoned, her dreams turned upside down.
She was alone in a strange land, married to a man she did not love, and raising children she did not want, the untreated wartime trauma slowly leading her from despair to depression and eventually to madness.
I stood there waiting, waiting for my mother to stop crying, waiting for her to come back upstairs to care for me. But even then I knew that was not possible, that, in fact, she was waiting to figure out a way to leave us and return home.
A sharp cry brought me back from the place of memory. I was no longer that boy, but a young man finding his way alone in the big city, standing there in the doorway of a tenement flat immobilized, just as the boy had been, listening to the awful sounds of grief and desperation, while feelings of helplessness rose up within him.
All of a sudden I heard a woman’s voice cry, “Tasia?” “Tasia!” Egó̱ eímai, Anna. “Ela tora!” (It’s me, Anna. I’m coming!) There was a rattling of keys and bolts being pulled back and then a short old Greek woman wearing a faded housecoat burst out onto the landing. I stood there transfixed, so caught up in my memories that I was unable to respond.
“Aeeehh, ah! You not Tasia. Where Tasia?”
She pulled on her hair, leaned against the filthy wall and slowly slid down to the floor of the landing. As she continued to wail I realized that Tasia must have been the woman who had lived in my apartment and jumped to her death.
Suddenly the anguished woman quit wailing, opened her eyes and stared at me for a few moments before saying, “You not Tasia.”
“No, I’m not,” I replied in a voice that seemed detached from me, as if I were observing what was happening from a great distance rather than right in front of me. We stayed like that for what seemed like an eternity, she in a heap on the floor and I with my head sticking out from behind my door. Eventually, not knowing what else to say or do, I blurted out something about being sorry and how awful it all was.
Anna kept staring at me as though she couldn’t understand why I was in Tasia’s apartment. Finally she said, “Who are you?”
I tried to tell her my name, but my throat was constricted and my mouth dry, so couldn’t reply immediately, but then somehow choked out, “Stephen.”
She didn’t respond, but just sat there on the old cracked tiles looking at me with suspicion before taking a deep breath and hauling herself back up onto her feet. As she stood there struggling to regain her balance she pointed a finger at me and exclaimed, “Of course you are! You the boy move in Tasia’s apartment.”
“She live here long time. Husband dead. She work hard. Children go California. Chicago. She have no one. Like me. Old. Alone.”
“She want go home Greece. Children no visit. No money. Just Anna. Always sitting in her room. Won’t eat. Won’t talk. Just sit quiet. All day. All night.”
“One day she no answer door. I hear crying. I say ‘Tasia, it me. Anna.’ She no answer. I hear window open. A scream, then….then….she jump from window.”
“Tasia kill herself.”
I didn’t want to hear any more. I wanted to slam my door shut, withdraw into my apartment and turn the radio on real loud, escaping into the disco music that was the soundtrack to my life those years, but I didn’t. I was frozen, unable to retreat back into my solitude.
I felt my lips move and heard myself say, “I’m so sorry,” “I’m so sorry, Anna”
“Anna?” How you know my name?”
“You just said it.”
“What your name?”
“I told you—Stephen.”
“Stephen?” “Hmm..” “No!” “Anna call you “Stratos! Good Greek name for strong tall boy like you.”
All I could do was nod my head as she stood there smiling at me. Finally, not being able to stand the awkwardness any longer, I said good night and stepped back into my apartment. As I started to close the door she looked at me and uttered, “Tasia, my friend…..dead.”
Anna began to weep again and then slowly turned around and shuffled back into her apartment. I waited for a moment while she locked and bolted her door, the sharp ratcheting of the metal echoing down the stairs, the air so thick with despair and loss I could hardly breathe. Feelings of hopelessness like those my mother felt so many years ago came over me, but I shook them off, not wanting to be pulled down into the despair to which they inevitably led. Taking a deep breath, I closed my door, locked and bolted it, and took refuge in the space in which I had come to live, the space which had known such misery and anguish.
In the weeks that followed, I would hear Anna banging around in her apartment talking to herself in Greek. Sometimes, as I hauled myself up the ten flights of stairs with a bag of groceries in one hand and if I were lucky, a beautiful Puerto Rican boy in the other, I would hear her crying as she sat alone in the darkness. I’d stop for a moment on the landing, careful not to linger too long, not wanting her weeping to trigger memories of my mother. As quickly as I could, I’d unlock my door and just as fast close it behind me in order to escape those sounds of sorrow and grief.
Besides, there were more immediate things that needed my attention.
When summer came and the afternoon heat would become unbearable, Anna would prop open her door in order to draw air up the stairwell and into her stifling apartment. She usually sat right in the doorway, but if she heard me getting ready to leave she’d hurriedly shut the door so I wouldn’t see her. However, one day as I stepped out onto the landing she must have been in her kitchen so I was able to look into her room, a space which seemed inhabited rather than lived in. The windows were covered with stained threadbare sheets and the only pieces of furniture were an old table with a chair and a small bed in one corner. On both sides of the door, lined up along the walls were boxes tied with twine, some suitcases, and a large steamer trunk.
One evening, after I had come home from work and was getting ready to go out for the night, I heard a knock on my door. It was Anna. As usual she was talking so quickly and in such broken English that I couldn’t understand much of what she said. It sounded like she wanted me to come over to her place to help her or something.
At first I hesitated, not wanting to get caught up in Anna’s craziness, but she grabbed me with her strong bony hands and literally pulled me out of my apartment and into hers.
“Come in! Parakaló. Please!” She then shut her door and pulled tight the bolts and chains, as I awkwardly stood there wondering what Anna was up to. She then steered me toward the trunk and pushed me down onto it saying, “Sit!”
Anna disappeared into the kitchen for a moment before returning with a spoon and a small, porcelain bowl filled with white beans. She said they were lucky beans that would help me find a wife. I wasn’t at all hungry, especially not for what was in the bowl, but not wanting to hurt her feelings, I put a few of the beans into the spoon and lifted them up to my mouth.
“You like?” she asked before I’d even taken a bite.
“Yes, Anna. They’re, uh, delicious. Thank you.”
“Good, Stratos. You good boy.”
Anna walked to the table and pulled the chair over to where I was sitting on the trunk and sat down. The stagnant air hung thickly around us as we sat there without speaking, Anna watching me slowly eat the tasteless beans while I breathed in the musty smell of her room.
Finally, Anna said, “I ready go home Greece,” as she lifted up a blue-veined hand and pointed toward the dust covered boxes and suitcases assembled along the wall behind me, its decades-old paint dirty and peeling. “Échoume spiti. We have house.”
“A house in Greece?” I replied.
“Anna sit by window, listen for boat, take Anna home to Greece. Mitéra and Patéras wait for me. My sisters, Evenia, Sophia wait for me. Go home. Boat take me home to Greece.”
“Stratos, listen! Éna skáfos! You hear boat?”
I strained to hear something that might even remotely sound like a ship’s horn; anything that might give her a bit of hope, but all I could hear was the steady stream of traffic slowly making its way down Ninth Ave. to the Lincoln Tunnel.
“No, Anna. I don’t.”
“Boat will come, Stratos! Anna go crazy sitting alone all day and all night. Listening. Waiting.”
“Tasia, wait, too. All day and night, like Anna. Never boat for Tasia. But now Tasia home.”
As I looked down into the old chipped bowl at the last of the supposedly lucky beans, I heard coming from deep inside Anna the most horrible sound, like that of a wounded animal that has crawled away somewhere to either heal itself or die; the same sound that I would hear coming from my mother while she squatted in the basement; my mother, like Anna, waiting to go home, home to a place that no longer existed but in their memories.
My mother eventually did come back upstairs, but she never became a mother. Even though I waited, just like Anna waited for the boat home that would never come.
After a few years of living in our tenement in Hell’s Kitchen, I moved across the continent to start a new life in Seattle; a life filled with hope, promise, and opportunities.
The day I left I knocked on Anna’s door to say goodbye, but she didn’t answer, even though I could hear her muttering to herself and crying.
I don’t know what happened to Anna. But in my heart I know that, like her friend Tasia, she did make it home. Not to Greece, but home.